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When the Brakes Stick: ADHD Homeschooling Strategies – Part 2: How to Adapt Your Homeschool for ADHD Kids
Homeschooling with ADHD often feels like driving a car with stuck brakes – you’re pressing forward, but the resistance is constant, and every step takes extra effort. On top of that, the resistance is invisible, and you may feel like no one understands, or like it shouldn’t be this hard. But it is. And we need to acknowledge that. For children with ADHD, it can feel like their own brain is working against them, making daily routines and learning a battle instead of an adventure. That’s why the heart of any adaptation isn’t about rigid systems or perfect schedules – it’s about healing trauma and nurturing emotional safety. Part 1…
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When the Brakes Stick: ADHD Homeschooling Strategies – Part 1: ADHD and Trauma
Living with ADHD often feels like trying to hold onto a dozen threads at once, each one pulling in a different direction. In the last few days, as I physically untangle a ball of yarn I’m trying to knit with, my mind has been untangling some big changes in routine due to my husband’s work schedule, trying to clean the house, the heavy emotional work of raising pre-teens, figuring out what’s for dinner, feeling guilty for giving up and ordering dinner so often, and trying to homeschool in the midst of it all. On top of all that, the brakes on our car are stuck. There are just too many…
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Make Space and Allah Will Make Space for You: The Story of Our Book Club
“Oh my God, I needed this so much.” “I feel so recharged and ready to take on the week.” “These get-togethers are so essential for self-care.” I’ve been to my share of social events: sisters’ nights out, kid-free mom gatherings, homeschool moms’ meetings. Every time, everyone seems to feel great afterwards—everyone but me, the one who’s completely drained every single time. Whenever I go to a social event, I block off the next two days on my calendar to recover my energy and feel normal again. Until I learned the importance of making space for myself, I thought there was no other option. Social spaces are usually built for neurotypical…
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When Interests Become Anchors: Understanding special interests in neurodiverse families
When I listen to a conversation, I imagine a tennis match. It might be a hard analogy for most people to understand. To my brain, it’s simple: one person serves, then the other returns. Sometimes the ball bounces while the one on the receiving end thinks of a response. Other times, the person runs up to the net if they’re ready with a quick-witted response. I taught myself the back-and-forth of conversations as a child using tennis. Eventually, the rally ends, and it’s time to serve again with a new question or conversation topic. I even learned that often the best play is to hit the ball just inside the…
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My Happiness Menu: Simple, Sensory-Friendly Ways to Boost Dopamine, Oxytocin, Serotonin, and Endorphins
Some days your body and mind need a little extra care. The Happiness Menu is a printable list of quick, research-backed actions paired with the specific feel-good chemical they boost – dopamine for motivation, oxytocin for connection, serotonin for calm, and endorphins for joy. Our guide will help you match your symptoms to the responsible neurotransmitter. Once you know what you’re lacking, use the menu to choose something to boost your system.
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Faith as a Compass: The Real Effects of Neurodiversity on Prayer
It’s commonly thought that autistic people are more likely to be atheists. Personally, I strongly believe that autism is what led me to Islam. While some like to people-watch, when I was 19, I used to nature-watch. I loved being in nature, away from anything human-made, and just watching. Watching the trees blow in the wind, watching a butterfly visit flowers, watching birds dance in the sky. You can see signs of Allah everywhere in nature. Belief in God was something obvious to me, but it was also private. I didn’t like people telling me what to believe because I already knew what I believed. Then I picked up a…
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